tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5039152961787098923.post2690253185029122615..comments2023-11-05T07:08:07.047-05:00Comments on Life's a Fickle Pickle...: coping mechanisms Ninahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03542231684862899520noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5039152961787098923.post-7535124618467593102012-08-21T19:57:41.632-04:002012-08-21T19:57:41.632-04:00It seems like a phenomenon to me how many people h...It seems like a phenomenon to me how many people have lost one of their grandparents this year. Maybe I am just more aware since I lost my grandfather....<br /><br />I'm really sorry your grandmother passed. It sucks that those around you seem totally oblivious to what you actually need.<br /><br />The guy brock sounds like an ass and I hope you leave him alone. You'll meet the perfect man for you, I know it. Trishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08246302433437833516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5039152961787098923.post-44419909202462701382012-08-20T10:23:50.981-04:002012-08-20T10:23:50.981-04:00I realize that. He was right behind me as we were ...I realize that. He was right behind me as we were walking out then he wasn't when I turned around. He's just not a chivalrous man. I don't mind teaching someone how to treat me but you have to have some of the basics down. I knew better by the way he was when I met him but I went against my instincts. <br /><br />I feel kinda stupid being like...are you paying for my cab? Can you open this door for me? <br />I feel like that's a given and with other men, it was never a question. <br /><br />So, I guess no more cookies.Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03542231684862899520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5039152961787098923.post-82436694381823398502012-08-20T02:11:39.268-04:002012-08-20T02:11:39.268-04:00Sorry about your grandmother. I know all too well ...Sorry about your grandmother. I know all too well about burying a family member with minimal help. Exhaustive! Kudos to you for keeping it together and getting what needed to be done, done. (hugs)<br /><br />Okay little miss ma'am I've read your sexcapades for awhile and I need for you to take more authority over your sex life. <br />You set the rules! It's your body and you should be treated how you want to be treated. Discuss up front how its gonna go down. Dude called and wanted sex... okay... But if he wanted it he should KNOW that he is required to pay your fare home AND wait with you. These days you gotta tell a fool what you want. YOU teach people how to treat you and what he did was NOT okay. He either needs to be re-trained or no more cookie for him! :)Gorgeous_Puddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10085340272419221124noreply@blogger.com