tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5039152961787098923.post4589635907875276314..comments2023-11-05T07:08:07.047-05:00Comments on Life's a Fickle Pickle...: What About Your Friends?Ninahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03542231684862899520noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5039152961787098923.post-39865068293726299712010-03-08T21:08:53.606-05:002010-03-08T21:08:53.606-05:00I have learned to do this with my friends. One of ...I have learned to do this with my friends. One of my BFFs is planning to change her life very drastically for man, but decided to just try and be happy for her. The only person's lives we can control is ourself and I've learned to take that in stride.Trishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08246302433437833516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5039152961787098923.post-88564037534386095392010-03-07T21:46:54.390-05:002010-03-07T21:46:54.390-05:00i agree with belle. stop giving gi advice. its to...i agree with belle. stop giving gi advice. its too much. she's a train wreck and all you can really do is continue to be there to pick up the pieces.<br /><br />well, you aren't teh only fat sexless recluse. lol. so don't sweat it. even if that's what other think, as long as you aren't rushing into disasters who cares. you'll get back out there when its right for you. and even if you dont' recognize it, the celibacy has made you much wiser with how you choose to share yourselff and with whom you chose to share yourself. and that's wisdom those around you don't have, hence the train wrecks.Young woman on a journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11818466090098952193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5039152961787098923.post-54184849701981679572010-03-07T21:33:57.633-05:002010-03-07T21:33:57.633-05:00I can SO relate to this post. I used to be a soci...I can SO relate to this post. I used to be a social butterfly, but a series of (failed) friendships have left me a recluse. I really don't like being like this, and I suppose its easy to become one because I have a boyfriend who is fast becoming my best friend.<br />What can I say, people scare me!<br /><br />As for your friend, I had a train-wreck of a friend too, and stopped giving advice after a while. The more advice you give, the more likely she'll label you a "hater". She'll learn eventually...bellenoreply@blogger.com