Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Is it Wrong?

Addendum to the bogus convo we had (thanks Chris)

Dame asked if I liked children.

I do.

Good, because if you're gonna be with me, you're going to have to deal with my kids. Even if we're just sleeping together.

Pause.

On one hand, I respect a man that's down for his kids. There's nothing sexier than that. BUT, if I am "just sleeping" with you, why would I meet your children. I don't want to be apart of their lives. I just want to see you between the hours of 11pm to 11am respectively which means the kiddies should be asleep.

If I had a child and was still whoring around town, my child wouldn't know anyone unless I was dating the person for a significant amount of time and knew they'd be sticking around.

Hell, I don't give anyone a blog moniker until they make at least a 2nd or 3rd appearance in my life...

What do you guys think?

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9 comments:

neemie said...

run. run far. run fast.

i'm quite sure there are better men out there.

in fact, i'll put money on it.

Young woman on a journey said...

um...i agree with neemie. I told you something wasn't right with this man. Its wrong and its mixed messaging. Who can say "i'm just sleeping with you but i want you to get to know my kids?" it just doesn't make any sense at all.

Young woman on a journey said...

And oh, you should quit him sooner than you planned.

Chris said...

I'll give you both sides...


Yeah, leave him, he's nuts...it's like a commitment to have no commitment...weird...


...but if he is breaking you off, just do the late night booty call only at your place...and keep it to that only, and tell him that's all you want...maybe he'll get the point then.

Liz said...

don't listen to chris...
he is crazy and will probably stalk you when you do finally break it off.

now i may be over-thinking this BUT

i think he is feeling you more than he should hence the bogus convo during sexy time (as chris put it). he is just scared of getting his feelings hurt which is why he doesn't want a commitment... the good old "leave them before they can leave me" syndrome. now because you obviously put it on him something serious, he wants to make sure he doesn't mess that up. pulling the kids into it may be a subconscious way of locking you in emotionally....

i say run for the hills!

E said...

agreed. bye dame!

Jane said...

I agree with Liz. I think he is definitely feeling you more than he is ready to let you know.

Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T said...

didnt know u were a whore
thats foul

Charles said...

Mutual sex buddies huh...?? Dangerous territory...

And I don't know if I'll ever do a post from the crackberry...but who knows...