Yup. You read that right.
I'm a giver. That's in ALL of my relationships...professional, friendships, everything.
And I was thinking about this all day and really....I'm going to start putting myself first.
I'm a good woman. I deserve to be courted. I deserve to be wooed, to be told I'm beautiful, to be DESIRED.
Trish is right. Afroman, Aussie...I made it too easy. I gave them convenient sex and a hot meal.
Which reminds me. Gi. I could have back-slapped her yesterday. She's been dating this dude who is trying to be an actor. He's out of work. They've been chilling really heavy. I told her they should slow up because that's how she gets attached quickly. She tells me how they talk about sex a lot (initiated by her) and how she can tell he's working with a lot. I raise my eyebrow. I tell her she needs to control herself. That its really up to us (women) to control the sexual pace because (most) men will have sex but will they call the next day - doubtful. She told him that she doesn't want to have sex til they're in a relationship. He respects that. I'm like..Gi, ease up on the sex talk because you're sending mixed messages and you're going to have your mind going some place it shouldn't go.
No one effing listens to me!
Yesterday, she tells me she slept with him on Sunday. The Lawwwwwd's day, lol.
Then, she found out that he didn't tell his mother he was seeing someone and she doesn't want to go to his house to chill (he lives w/mom).
He said..."Its only been a month. He didn't want to tell his mom when they don't have a title and he's not sure how it will work out."
Gi is hurt. She won't admit it but she's sensitive and she's like...well, we slept together.
I told her to fall back.
She said she would and she wasn't going to sleep with him again until they do have a title.
I know she will sleep with him again. I know how this will end. She said..."I was trying not to make the same mistakes...."
Not saying I'm any better but geeez louiiiiseeeeee! We really see other people's situations better than out own for real.
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