She says:
"Nina, do you think we're fwb? I mean we are dating...."
Me:
Well, you don't have a title and you're sleeping with him.
Gi:
True. I really really like him.
Me:
Hmmmm. Do you REALLY want to be his gf or do you just want the title because ya'll are sleeping together?
*crickets*
Me:
I mean he doesn't have a job. You have a lot of expectations from him and he can't deliver. Putting a title on it will only restrict what you guys do (meaning he will put less effort into it because its locked down) and have you ever dated someone who was unemployed? Not fun.
Gi:
I guess you're right. I've been in that situation before. Maye I'll give it a few more months but reallyby 4 months you should know if you want to be with someone or not.
....Notice she never answered my question...lol
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4 comments:
My gosh. Why is she doing this to herself. At least get a guy who has a job. Is like she have low expectations or something. No offense but she needs to check herself and move up.
Glad she worked that out by talking it over with you. Hopefully she will set her sights on someone on an equal playing field.
...unemployment is no good business it's true. Still, it seems there could be worse circumstances under which one person can date another.
She likes the guy. Sometimes, in life you just have to give in to the moment and enjoy it for what it is.
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