Who's behavior were you appalled at?
BGF- stands for best gay friend 2 years ago when I first started this blog, he had that name.
History In Bullets:
*we worked together and became fast friends
*he started me doing the balls and then kinda left me without guidance
*we were still friends. he quit the job, moved to d.c. to be with his bf.had no money. I did soooo much for him
*he got arrested. I helped raise $1350 in bail.
*i added him to my phone which he never paid for 6 months until I turned it off...owes me $500 + for that (he was then referred to as FBGF - former best gay friend)
And his latest stunt - he was going to try and make life work in Houston. Two months ago, I called him and he mentioned he wanted to move back.
A month ago, a friend (Swagg B) told me he saw FBGF at a club in NJ. I was pissed. I thought maybe he was here for a weekend and didn't call me.
This weekend as RR is doing my hair to go out, he mentions he saw FBGF at a mutual friend's house a week ago and that it seemed like he's been in NJ for a minute.
I saw FBGF at the ball. He came up to me and was like "Oh hey. You look great. Have you seen ***?"
"Oh she's here?'
"Yes, I was on my way to see her."
"Wow, ok bye."
He goes to leave.
SwaggB wants us to take a pic together.
"Actually, I'll pass...you're not my favorite person right now."
"Nina don't be like that!" Swagg says.
He hits me up on my.sp.ace.
You looked great...yada yada
I don't hold back.
I tell him how I feel - howyounotgonnaevencareabouthangingwithme
He says he was keeping a low profile. He was only in town for the holidays.
You've been here for a month. I'm tired of this. I can't allow you to continuously disappoint me.
You have no idea what has been going on. Its ok I still love you.
I will always love and be here for you if you really need me. But, why lie?
You're right. There was no need to lie. I love you.
In short, I'm done. I can't hold on to toxic friendships. I've allowed this person to work me in many ways and I am through.
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