Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Different

I had 2 very good conversations today - heart to hearts about relationships. My head was spinning so much I couldn't even concentrate on completing a story I'm writing.

I called Aussie when I got home. We talked. Like, really really talked. We hadn't had a real conversation in a while.

We talked about us. We agree on why it didn't work out the first time. It didn't work because we didn't take the time to really get to know one another. The chemistry was crazy and we were so focused on lust and sex that we feigned getting to know one another by sending a million text messages a day and not having deep conversations.

We don't know each other. Not the way we should.

But we're trying.


And that is all the difference.

Hope, friends...hope.
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4 comments:

Jimmy said...

All you can do is try.

Communication is the key to all healthy relationships.

Young woman on a journey said...

awww...i'm so glad you talked!

Trish said...

Good you two both opened up and are willing to try it again.

Monie said...

This is good news. I have my fingers crossed for you!