Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Exit Strategy

And so....in the afterglow of the last post, I text him...

Me: Do you want me to stop texting/contacting you? Let me know where I
stand.

B: Whaaaaaaaaaat?

Me: I haven't really heard from you in days. I just want to know if I
should take the hint and stop bothering you.

B: Ok I am a hard working man so if u need someone there all the time
to text n talk I am not the one I like u but I am a man oon a mission
hun and that's success

Me: No. A "hi I'm alive" text once a day takes nothing. I understand
what you're about. I'm not trying to change your agenda by any means but
if the shoe was on the other foot and you hadn't heard from me in 3
days, how would you feel?

B: I would be understanding.

Me: I've been very accomodating of you and your schedule. I'm bending
all my rules for you. I just hope you see that. Hopefully we can talk
more about in person next week.

B: My schedule will be the same way next week . How is the pageant ?

Me: It's this weekend. I may not be competing but I'm still going to
support. I don't see why I can't meet you for lunch/dinn/bfast

B: *crickets*

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*shakes head*

He really spoke volumes there, didn't he?

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3 comments:

Jane said...

you are now completely clear as to who he is.....now its up to you if you want to be apart of it.

Nina said...

and the church says.....AMEN!

Monie said...

Hey girlie, I'm all caught up. Yay! LOL!

Let me just tell you this: A man makes time for who/what he WANTS to make time for. It takes absolutely nothing to send a text every few days to let someone know you are thinking of them or whatever. Of course, I do realize that men don't think the same way as women but I feel like if Blair wanted to text and/or call...he would. You have made him aware of what would make you feel happy and special and he has chosen not to go that route. That speaks volumes.

You are an awesome ass chick. Do not waste your time trying to get that man to do what you want him to do. Put on some makeup, a fly ass dress, some smell good and put yourself out there to meet someone else. If you just happen to be able to kick it with Blair again, cool. If not, fuck 'im and keep it moving.

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