Saturday, May 16, 2009

Waste

So the big date happened Thursday night/Friday morning at 12:01am. I'm gonna try and make this brief.

1. He made himself out to be a big 6"5 football player type that while he wasn't defined, he was together. He was NOT. He was like Biggie. Except Biggie had more swagger. His size was daunting because he walked slooooow. When we met, he saw me and still was walking at a snail's pace. It made me think he is lazy. Not sexy.
2. He had nice hands and long arms that he put around me. It was comfortable. Until he kept caressing my face. His hands can palm my face. So, his caress was taking up everything from my nose down. It felt like he was blind and was trying to learn my features. I told it was weird and I asked him to stop. I told him it and I asked him to stop. He began rubbing his thumb over my lips. I bit his finger and I asked him to stop. He licked my ear. I almost jumped out of my seat. I asked him to stop. I wiped my ear off...yuck! He rubbed his thumb against my lips again. I punched him in the leg. He ran his fingers through my hair. He smoothed it down and began petting my hair. I moved as far away as possible without going into the next seat. We watched the movie (finally!)

3. Afterwards, he got money out of the ATM then asked me if we could take a cab and split it. (Hmmmm!) I said okay. He asked me if I liked him. I didn't directly answer. I told him I felt like it was an instant relationship he was seeking and asked him why he didn't stop. He said he thought I liked it. No = Yes. Hmmmmmm? He basically turned everything around on me like asking how is he supposed to show he likes me. If he didn't call or text it would be a problem. Now he does, its a problem. I asked if he didn't understand he was smothering me and it was too much too quickly. He asked me to explain specific things he did to make me feel that way. At that point I decided that was the end of the road for us. I told him I was going home alone. I hopped in my stinky cab and got home at 3am.

Smh
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2 comments:

neemie said...

oh man, that blows. i'm sorry your date sucked.

Young woman on a journey said...

yikes! and he had such potential.